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Discussion/Conclusion part 2: 
We decided to let the LinkableComponent have a propery: CascadingCallsDisabled.
The default is false, indicating that the component is running in Pull Driven mode (there will be a cascade of update() calls. This Pull Driven mode has to be supported by every component.
If set to true, the component is expected to run Update()-step by Update-Step(), controlled by some outer world (which may be another component). If the component does not support this Update() by Update() way of running, it will throw an Exception when CascadingCallsDisabled = true is called;
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